This talk—When Parents Let Go Too Much, by Stephanie Oboh—is a wake-up call wrapped in honesty, humor, and a lack of tough love.She paints a vivid picture of what happens when parental love for a child lacks boundaries. When parents choose convenience over connection and freedom over guidance.With a striking blend of personal story and social insight, this talk explores the very real consequences of hands-off parenting. From an eye-opening childhood memory to powerful metaphors—like flying a plane without a flight path—it challenges the modern-day myth that “kids will figure it out on their own.”Backed by psychological research and grounded wisdom, the speaker introduces “The Wormwood Effect”—a warning about what happens when structure is replaced by silence. You’ll meet the friend who had too much freedom and not enough foundation, and revisit famous quotes that hit harder than ever before. Stephanie is a brilliant and versatile 14-year-old Year 10 learner who blends academic excellence with a strong sense of purpose. Currently serving as Assistant Social Prefect for 2024/25, she is also a multi-award-winning student, having been the Overall Best Student in Years 7–9. She won the State Lavogue Annual Maths Competition and placed third in Badminton during the 2025 games. Through the Mega Jewels Award project, her team funded the education of underprivileged students—demonstrating a deep sense of social responsibility. Stephanie’s sharp intellect, leadership ability, and passion for equity make her a remarkable young changemaker. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx