In this talk, Stephen talks about how we need to stop trying to fix people and instead support them to build a better life. Rooted in Positive Psychology research, the most effective way is to build on gratitude and seeing that happiness is hard work, but better than the alternative. Steve’s philosophy is based on the fundamental belief that problems and failure are important experiences of life. People who are recovering failures, are in fact, succeeding. Success requires failure. Steve has been a social worker for over 35 years and has practised in England, Scotland and British Columbia. He served as a director for PLEA, a large non-profit, where he built a database that was designed to track and improve services for community charities which earned him “The Most Inspiring Social Worker of the Year” in 2015 from the University of British Columbia Social Work Department and the British Columbia Association of Social Workers. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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