How I found meaning from a devastating tragedy, restored purpose and hope, and experienced a greater appreciation for all that I had before the tragedy and all that remained after, by understanding the purpose of grief, intentionally walking with grief instead of running from it, and accepting the gifts it offers. Everyone faces grief. But not everyone chooses to listen to it and learn from it. Holly Higgins is a mother who received the phone call every military family dreads. In 2010, her son, Senior Airman Daniel Johnson, was killed in action while serving as a bomb technician in Afghanistan.
That loss could have shattered her spirit. Instead, it shaped her calling.
Holly is a Gold Star Mother, a storyteller, and a guide for those carrying invisible wounds. She serves as a Story Coach and Program Leader with Task Force Pineapple, where she helps Families of the Fallen turn their pain into purpose. She’s also the co-author of Wounds to Wisdom—a title that reflects her own journey. Holly doesn’t pretend that grief is easy. She teaches that grief is a teacher. No matter what the source of your grief, if you’re willing to learn from it, it can restore meaning, connection, and even joy. In her talk, she shares what grief gave her… and how it continues to guide her. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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