How Our Inherent Self‑Interest Shapes Connection, Progress, and Love | Mano Darsh | TEDxSISJ Youth
In his talk, Mano Darsh challenges one of our deepest assumptions: that true selflessness exists. In this provocative talk, he argues that behind every act of kindness, sacrifice, or love lies a form of self-interest. Whether it’s validation, pride, or inner peace, we’re all driven by something personal. But instead of judging that, Mano invites us to embrace it. He shows how recognizing our selfish motives doesn’t make us worse; it makes us real. And if we’re honest about it, we can use self-interest as fuel for change, innovation, and authentic connection. Mano Darsh Manoj, a 12th-grade bio-psychology student, is a writer, storyteller, and aspiring clinical psychologist. From leading as last year’s scriptwriter to mentoring voices as Team Director of his school’s radio club, his creativity and commitment have consistently stood out. A winner of story-writing contests and a multilingual blogger of poems and reflections, Mano explores the depths of the human mind. In his upcoming TEDx talk, he reimagines selfishness, not as a flaw but as a quiet force driving empathy, creativity and progress. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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