A letter to my house: Forged in the Fire | Bridget Fonger | TEDxAltadena
When Bridget Fonger lost her home, she wrote letters to it—and found healing. Through love, loss, and ink, she reminds us that words have the power to rebuild the heart after everything else has burned. Bridget Fonger is the author of Superhero of Love: Heal Your Broken Heart & Then Go Save the World, co-author (with Altadena longtime resident, Judie O’Neill) of The Lazy Woman’s Guide to Just About Everything, creator of the Superhero of Love Podcast and Love Forward Talks -- all in the name of helping us all remove the barriers we have to loving and being loved. Bridget was days away from her 10-year anniversary of home-owning in Altadena when the fire took her house. So, her heart healing game has had to go up several hundred notches since January 8th! This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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