The feeling of unworthiness is a trap that can quietly shape every choice you make. For Dr. Farzana, it began in childhood and led to years of chasing approval, overachieving, and heartbreak until a series of raw turning points revealed the truth.In her TEDx talk, she shares why chasing approval never fills the emptiness inside and how self-compassion, trauma release, and inner child healing can break lifelong patterns. Her journey from survival to safety opened the door to freedom, joy, and love including finding her soulmate and becoming a mother again at 43.In this talk, she invites you to recognize the hidden patterns that have kept you small, and reclaim the parts of yourself you abandoned. It’s a call to step into your worth and to finally believe: you were always enough. Dr. Farzana Lakdavala is a visionary leader and holistic wellness coach who blends science, soul, and inner alignment to empower individuals and inspire conscious living. A former dental surgeon and founder of the Dental Care Trust, she now serves as Director, India at Scottish Development International. Crowned Mrs. Maharashtra and Mrs. India in her forties, Farzana proves reinvention is always possible. Through her platform Mind Body Soul Alchemy, she integrates leadership experience with intuitive practices like Access Consciousness, energy psychology, and mindset tools to help people dissolve self-sabotage and reconnect with their truth. Recognized among India’s 99 Achievers and as a Dynamic Woman of the Year, she also advocates for environmental wellness, raising awareness around the impact of noise pollution. Farzana believes in the power of aligned choice and conscious creation—guiding others toward clarity, confidence, and a life that feels as good as it looks. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx