Ayanda Carter recounts leaving South Africa at 22 to pursue a career in interior architecture in Nigeria, despite initial uncertainties and cultural differences. She highlights her reliance on talent, tenacity, and self-driven opportunities, such as designing airports and homes while adapting to diverse cultural norms. Emphasizing that becoming oneself is a lifelong journey, she encourages students to be curious, persistent, and accountable, learning from experiences even when frustrated. Praising the students' calmness and detail-oriented nature, she urges them to contribute to Nigeria's growth and to embrace challenges with resilience. The talk is an inspiring call to seize opportunities, develop skills, and remain committed to personal and professional growth. Ayanda Carter is an accomplished business strategist and architect of Melanin Creatives, a platform dedicated to amplifying African design and storytelling. With her expertise in strategy, communications, and creative innovation, she integrates African perspectives into global conversations, equipping the next generation to lead with identity and vision. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx