A deep reflection on how our pasts influences the way we nurture others. This talk emphasizes the need to confront personal emotional wounds in order to parent with intention , break harmful cycles , and raise emotionally intelligent future generations Dr. Fathima Saheer is a pediatrician and TEDx speaker dedicated to empowering parents through evidence-based guidance on child development and positive parenting. With a passion for storytelling and a commitment to holistic child wellness, she bridges the gap between medical expertise and everyday parenting challenges. Dr. Fathima actively engages with a broad audience on social media, offering insights and support to help families raise thriving children. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx