「了解」比效率解決更重要|黃 雅羚|TEDx臺師大|TEDxNTNU 2025 | 黃 雅羚 | TEDxNTNU
在「諮商制度」與人的縫隙之中,看見情緒的波動與成長的可能,黃雅羚長年作為心理師與領導者,為人們細緻的需要發聲,從專業實務到制度倡議、從家庭到校園,當大人們先懂自己、先安頓自己,又能否創造出讓年輕人安放自己的環境?從校園走入制度核心,一個人的力量有限,但大家一起,則能共同建造理想的未來。試著用眞誠與穩定的姿態,接住說不出口的困惑,用更寬的視角,看見個人背後的結構與限制,不著急獲得解答,而是耐心地讓對話長出獨特模樣,其實沒有標準答案,而是如何細膩、精準地貼近現實與可能被疏忽的個體。 黃雅羚是一位資深諮商心理師與心理師公會理事長,擁有多年第一線諮商實務經驗,同時活躍於政策制度推動與心理專業倡議的前線。她的專業觸角從兒童與青少年諮商擴及家庭與教育現場,長年關注心理諮商制度的發展,在那些未被理解的聲音,那些尚未發聲的需求,都是她想協助傳遞的訊號。陪伴與傾聽,從來都不是冷冰冰的技術,而是一場需要耐性、理解與反思的漫長對話。她相信,孩子的世界不是說教能靠近的,而是得用陪伴去感受、用衝突去理解。她從校園走入制度核心,一個人的力量有限,但一群人一起,問題就不再只是問題,而是能被拆解與共建的未來。她不是來談專業,而是來談「人」,我們如何在混亂又快速發展的世界中,把「好好活著」這件事成為生命中重要的一部分。 This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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