How to start getting along with your in-laws | Sarah Pachter | TEDxSan Diego Studio
Sarah Pachter, an internationally sought-after motivational speaker and author of Is It Ever Enough? and Small Choices, Big Changes. In her TEDx talk she draws from nearly two decades of teaching women across three continents, she illuminates the delicate dance between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law—two women who both deeply love the same man—and offers five transformative, empathy-driven rules for harmony and mutual respect. With warmth, clarity, and practical wisdom, Pachter invites audiences to turn what often feels like a conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection and lasting family bonds. sarahpachter.com#TEDxSanDiego #TEDx #Relationships #Marriage #Family #Connection #Empathy #ConflictSarah Pachter is an award winning, sought after speaker and author who commands large audiences and draws a vibrant following with her dynamic and personal approach. She has lectured internationally for the past 18 years and is a keynote speaker for several conferences around the world. She has authored two books: Is it Ever Enough? & Small Choices Big Changes. She has been featured on podcasts, radio, and has multiple standing columns.Her articles are featured in numerous publications including the LA times. Many of her articles have reached record breaking numbers of readers and have been translated into several languages. Sarah Pachter is also the host of Starstruck with Sarah Pachter, a new Aish.com podcast, and a premier speaker for Torah Anytime. She lives in Los Angeles with her husband and 5 children.This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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