Let's Make It Awkward | Deborah Liu | TEDxSan Diego Studio
We’ve all been told not to “make it awkward.” But what if it is that moment of awkwardness that sparks change? In this talk, Deb Liu shares how a lifetime of being dismissed and underestimated taught her that speaking up, even when it feels uncomfortable, rewrites the story of who gets to lead.With humor and honesty, she challenges us to reclaim those moments of discomfort and turn them into power. The next time you’re edged out or overlooked, don’t shrink. Step forward. Make it awkward.Website: www.debliu.com
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Substack: debliu.substack.com #TEDxSanDiego #TEDx #Women #awkward #Communication #Business Deb Liu is a seasoned tech executive, author, and advocate for women in leadership. Most recently President and CEO of Ancestry, she previously spent over a decade at Meta, where she created Facebook Marketplace and led Facebook Pay, the mobile ad network, and the games business. She also held product leadership roles at PayPal and eBay. Deb serves on the boards of Intuit and Duke’s Pratt School of Engineering and is a seed investor and advisor to startups. She is the founder of Women in Product, a nonprofit with 30,000+ members, and a member of the Committee of 100 and Gold House’s A100 list of impactful Asian Americans. Deb holds a BSE from Duke and an MBA from Stanford. She is the author of Take Back Your Power: 10 New Rules for Women at Work and shares weekly insights in her newsletter, Perspectives. She lives in California with her husband and three children. www.debliu.com This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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