What if happiness wasn’t something to chase — but something you could choose every day?In this heartfelt TEDx talk, the speaker shares a deeply personal journey of turning life’s challenges into opportunities for joy and strength. Drawing from her experience as a mother of twin sons diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder, she reveals how compassion, honesty, gratitude, and mindfulness can transform pain into purpose.This talk reminds us that happiness isn’t about perfect circumstances — it’s about perspective, gratitude, and courage to respond to life with positivity. Shalini Jaiswal is an accomplished education leader with over 10 years of teaching and 19 years in school administration. Currently Principal of Seth M. R. Jaipuria School, Lucknow, she has previously led St. John’s Universal School, Mumbai, to national and international recognition, winning the British Council International School Award and a top Times of India ranking. Recipient of accolades including Progressive Principal of India and the Gloria de Souza Excellence Award, she is also a TEDx community member who has hosted TEDxYouth events. A dynamic leader, she continues to shape institutions that empower students with values, innovation, and global outlook. Her vision is to nurture future-ready learners who combine academic excellence with strong character and creativity. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx