Being a Third parent to teens and helping to build the reality | Jothsna Kethar | TEDxCumming Youth
Why Do Teens Need a Third Parent?
Being a teenager is overwhelming. They are dealing with incredible stress in a confusing digital world. While parents are managing emotional drama, teens are battling peer pressure and distraction. Someone has to be the project manager and orchestrator of their lives. Educational Consultant "Coach Jo" introduces the "Third Parent": the calm, unbiased guide who steps in to find clarity in chaos. This role is essential for teens to turn stress into resilience and discover their authentic selves. Jothsna Kethar, affectionately known as “Coach Jo” by her students, is an Educational Consultant, College Counselor, on a mission to demystify the college process.
As the founder of Gifted Gabber, she’s led transformative work with thousands of teens, especially those from immigrant families and with learning differences—equipping them to navigate complex admissions, build standout profiles, and secure life-changing scholarships.
When she’s not demystifying college applications, building unique "spikes," or securing real-world internships, Coach Jo is leading InspireYouth, a nonprofit fostering leadership and humanitarianism in teens. She is living proof that personalized guidance, unwavering support, and a belief in every student’s unique potential can unlock any door.
Coach Jo’s favorite saying on LIFE: Every child has a unique spark; and my mission is to ignite it. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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