What if pretending wasn’t just for kids? In this bold, electrifying TEDx talk, drag performer and therapist Journee LaFond (they/she) invites you to rediscover the transformative power of play. From their mother’s beauty rituals to meeting a drag queen who shattered their world open, Journee weaves personal storytelling with social science to challenge everything you think you know about identity, performance, and becoming.
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