When forming a team, we often think about harmony, compromise, and getting along. But Meichen argues that a little “selfishness” at the start — being clear about your goals, values, and standards — can actually lead to a stronger, more effective group. In this talk, she shares how embracing your own needs isn't a flaw, but the foundation of real teamwork. Meichen Liu a Senior 3 student at Jinling High School — which means group projects have been a part of her life for the past three years. When it comes to balancing friendship and teamwork, she’s developed some unique insights. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx