With the sensitivity of an observer and the courage of an innovator, Shi Yanning reflects on how we make life choices. She believes that the way out of life’s dilemmas isn’t to follow a fixed path, but to dare to create new rules. In this talk, she explores what it means to redefine your journey on your own terms. I'm Shiny – a name that speaks of light. As an INFP navigating the whirlwind of 11th-grade humanities, I experience the world through deep feeling, high sensitivity, and intuition. While it sometimes means moving through a loud world with an extra-thin skin, it also allows me to perceive glimmers others might miss. Like many of you, I've wrestled with uncertainty, especially at crossroads like choosing between arts and sciences. The fear of taking a "wrong path" nearly dimmed my own light. But I've learned that our radiance isn't defined by the path that illuminates us, but by the authentic glow we choose to carry forward. My journey has taught me that the most vibrant stories are written not by perfect choices, but by the resilience and heart we pour into each step, especially when the ground feels shaky. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx