The speaker explores how real connection isn’t defined by family ties but by shared moments and genuine openness. Through a heartfelt and humorous story—from sibling duties at home to forming unexpected friendships at the Yale Economic Forum—she discovers that connection is built through curiosity, laughter, and authenticity. It’s not just about DNA or duty, but about choosing to reach out, listen, and truly belong. Vesta is a passionate youth speaker from Cambridge Center of NAS Nantong who explores the meaning of human connection beyond traditional bonds. Through engaging storytelling and reflective inquiry, she shares how diverse cultural and collaborative experiences—such as her participation in the Yale Economic Forum—can build meaningful, cross-border relationships. Vesta believes in the power of openness, authenticity, and chosen connections to create a more understanding and interconnected world. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx