Harrison Blake-Goszyk spent his entire life searching for an explanation as to why others found him strange. After being diagnosed with autism and learning about the stark inequalities those in the community face, Harrison sought ways to mend the gap of belonging between autistic people and their peers. Drawing from professional and lived experience, he illustrates practical methods for carving a place in the world for people like himself while discussing the power of not explaining yourself and existing as you are. I am an Astrophysics PhD candidate at Vanderbilt studying black holes and gravity as well as doing mission prep for the Laser Interferometer Space Antenna (LISA), which will be launched in the 2030s. I also work for the Frist Center for Autism and Innovation at Vanderbilt on many projects relating to incorporating autistic people into the workforce. In my spare time, I enjoy writing science fiction, cooking, longsword fighting, and reading. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx