In this powerful and deeply personal TEDx talk, Dr. Sassi Malik Sher, a renowned civil service officer and social advocate, takes us through her journey of challenging expectations, breaking stereotypes, and discovering her true strength. Growing up in a world where ambition was often limited by gender, she refused to accept the boundaries placed before her. Together with her sisters, she not only cleared the CSS but carved paths of excellence in spaces where women were once told they did not belong.Through honesty, courage, and reflection, Dr. Sassi shares how every “you can’t” became the fuel for her “I will.” Her story is not just about success—it’s about transformation, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of self-discovery. Dr. Sassi Malik Sher — an MBBS graduate who broke new ground by passing the highly competitive CSS exam and now serves as Assistant Director General at Headquarters Military Lands & Cantonments. She is one of the celebrated Sher sisters, all of whom cleared CSS and shattered stereotypes with grace and grit This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx