In this raw and vulnerable TED Talk, Lavanya exposes the hidden battlefield that exists beneath our skin—where thoughts and actions wage war in silence. After losing her grandmother and her ability to feel, she discovered what she calls "phony emotional capitalism"—a system where showing emotion feels illegal and honesty is judged like a crime. Through powerful storytelling and her breakthrough EBFR method, Lavanya reveals how to break the devastating cycle of emotional suppression that affects millions worldwide. A poised and purposeful 17-year-old, I have a soul drawn to spiritual growth, and a natural gift for public speaking. I thrive in organizing, guiding, and growing and strive to serve with heart and lead with vision. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx