Self-Worth Is the Real Revolution| Ella D’Verma| TEDxIIMSambalpur | Ella D. Verma | TEDxIIMSambalpur
In this powerful talk, Ella D’Verma breaks down the internal battles we all silently fight—feeling unworthy, playing small, and trying to please everyone. Drawing from her personal journey, she unpacks how self-esteem isn’t a buzzword—it’s the foundation for building the life of your dreams. From growing up middle class and being told to "stay in your lane" to choosing king-sized dreams and setting unapologetic boundaries, Ella shares how true transformation begins when you start acting like your highest self—before anyone else believes in you. With sharp insights, wit, and raw honesty, she redefines what it means to be “born for greatness,” reminding us that success is not about waiting for validation but showing up as who you were always meant to be.
Ella D Verma, is a trailblazing trans model and digital content creator with 350k followers on Instagram. Ella has become a powerful voice in the fashion industry and a beacon of hope for many. Her journey is one of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking down barriers in a world that often lacks understanding and representation. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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