Adopting. A new Way. | Gayatri Abraham | TEDxSJIM
One can “reinvent the status quo” in adoption by shifting the narrative from charity or obligation to empathy and equality. Historically, adoption was shaped by social, political, or practical motives—rarely centered on the child’s welfare. Over time, perceptions have evolved, yet biases persist, often portraying adoption as a noble act or a solution to infertility rather than as a legitimate way to build families. Reinvention calls for a mindset grounded in openness, inclusion, and acceptance—where language and attitudes reflect respect and normalcy. By making adoption child-centric, society can move beyond outdated notions of pity or pride and focus on belonging and love. Embracing this transformation means redefining adoption as not “giving” or “taking” a child, but joining lives through empathy and shared humanity—a true reinvention of the status quo. Gayatri Abraham completed her M.Sc. in Family Therapy and
Counselling, and specialised courses such as Basic Skills in
Counselling, Couple and Family Counselling, and Child and
Adolescent Therapy.
Gayatri Abraham is passionate about adoption and runs an
NGO in the adoption space. The NGO supports and helps
couples and individuals navigate through the adoption
journey – from dealing with infertility and loss, to preparing
them to make an informed decision on adoption as an
alternative route to expanding families.She is an avid reader and nature/wildlife buff. For her, self-
healing begins when one is attuned to nature within and
outside of oneself. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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