把一個人處理感受,當作獨立且重要的事看待|文 國士|TEDx臺師大|TEDxNTNU 2025 | 文 國士 | TEDxNTNU
要面對離別的情緒,並不是一件容易的事。試著感受生活中的常規,也擁抱脆弱與示弱的力量。一種準備好的整理、一種溫柔的行動,是讓哀傷可以被視爲一件獨立且重要的事情,那些你可能刻意忽略的生命難題,在責任與悲傷之間掙扎之外,「社會結構」的討論中,試著反思我們在奮力成為他人依靠的同時,社會是否有空間讓我們學會擁抱自己的脆弱、讓悲傷與勇敢並肩而行?文國士認為愛的反面不是恨是冷漠,願意誠實地説,本身就是一種溫柔的力量。 文國士,一位致力於弱勢兒童教育的台灣教育工作者,曾任偏鄉教師與生活輔導員。 他自幼由祖母撫養長大,父母皆患有精神疾病,這段經歷讓他深刻體會弱勢兒童的處境,並激發他投入教育工作的熱忱。畢業於輔仁大學英國語文學系及台北大學犯罪學研究所後,文國士參與「為台灣而教」(Teach For Taiwan)計畫,前往屏東三地門擔任偏鄉教師,後來轉至台東的陳綢兒少家園擔任生活輔導員,陪伴曾受虐待或忽視的孩子成長。他將自身經歷寫成《走過愛的蠻荒》一書,並於2022年改編為同名電視劇,進一步喚起社會對弱勢兒童的關注。 This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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